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The Crisis of Male Leadership
The following is the beginning of a speech delivered by the editor
of Patriarch, Philip Lancaster, to the first "Back to Patriarchy"
conference in May, 1996 in Springfield, Virginia, near Washington, D. C.
Our declining civilization
We are gathered a mere 15 miles or so from the symbolic center of the
greatest nation the world has ever known. A few minutes drive to the northeast
would take us to the White House, the Capitol, the Supreme Court building,
and the Pentagon, those outward manifestations of unprecedented political
and military power. We would also encounter majestic monuments and museums,
temple-like testimonies to unmatched achievements in the spheres of law
and government, the sciences, and the arts. Truly, America is the greatest
nation that God in his providence has ever placed upon the earth.
However, a trip today to these exhibitions of greatness should bring
tears to the eyes of any man with even a remnant of Christian conscience
and a faint recollection of Americas roots. For, of course, it was
not human might and ingenuity that produced this nation; it was the hand
of Almighty God working through men who feared the Lord and conformed their
private lives and public institutions to his holy Word. Americas greatness
must now be spoken of in the past tense: America was great, because America
was good. She has ceased to be good, and so is no longer great. Her people
no longer fear God nor conform their lives and institutions to his revealed
will.
Francis Schaeffer spoke of our generation as living in "post-Christian
America". This is certainly an accurate description. Better still is
the description of Steven Wilkins in America, the First 350 Years. He suggests
that we are in "post-America"! The nation we now inhabit does
not even deserve the same designation as the one founded and given form
in the Seventeenth and Eighteenth Centuries.
The church in decline
We could expand our view beyond the capital city and visit the churches
of America today. Here, too, our hearts should cry out in grief. In the
mainline denominations the virile faith and righteous life born of the Reformation
has been replaced by frank unbelief and an actual promotion of wickedness.
Even the evangelical churches, while paying lip service to Christ and his
Word, have abandoned biblical doctrine and practice, accepting in its place
a man-centered theology, a sentimentalized faith, a moralistic shadow of
true righteousness, and a general spirit of conformity to the world. Surely
Jesus must weep over his church in America.
I have drawn your attention to the decline of our nation and our churches
not to suggest that in this declension lies the source of our problems.
Nor would I suggest that working for the renewal of these institutions is
the most important endeavor of those who would see God honored in our land
once again. I present these things rather as symptoms of our deeper sickness.
The root of our degradation and the hope of our restoration lies in another
institution altogether: the family.
The home rules the nation
It is the home in which are determined the issues of the rise and fall
of churches, nations, and civilizations. It is the decline of the family,
and specifically the Christian family, which underlies the general decline
we witness about us today. And it is only the restoration of the Christian
home which holds any hope for the larger restoration of church and society.
In this connection, hear the insight of Theodore Cuyler:
For one, I care little for the government which presides at Washington,
in comparison with the government which rules the millions of American
homes. No administration can seriously harm us if our home life is pure,
frugal, and godly. No statesmanship or legislation can save us, if once
our homes become the abode of profligacy.
The home rules the nation. If the home is demoralized, it will ruin
it. The real seed corn whence our Republic sprang was the Christian households
represented in the Mayflower, or the family altar of the Hollander and
the Huguenot.
All the best characters, best legislation, best institutions, and best
church life were cradled in those early homes. They were the taproot of
the Republic, and of the American churches.
"The home rules the nation." Our national crisis is a consequence
of the crisis of the home, and the crisis of the home is a crisis of male
leadership. Men have abandoned their calling to be the spiritual leaders
of their families, to be the builders of Christian character, the teachers
of Christian doctrine, the models of Christ-like faith and virtue. They
have abdicated their responsibility to be the guardians of that wellspring
of Christian civilization: the Christian home. Because men have forsaken
their families, we are losing a civilization.
"The home rules the nation." In light of this truth it can
be said that we are gathered here to consider the most important work in
America today: the restoration of the Christian family. Now listen closely
and consider. I truly believe that there is in this room this morning more
potential to renew our nation than in the combined work of the executives,
legislators, judges, and generals who inhabit the marbled halls by the Potomac.
If it is true that the home rules the nationthat the welfare of church,
state, and larger society are determined by the welfare of the familythen
national renewal can only begin with family renewal. And family renewal
must begin with a restoration of family government, the recovery of the
role of spiritual leadership by men in their homes.
You men represent, in Gods economy, more potential for the healing
of our nation than the President, the Congress, and all the other public
figures who grab headlines every day.
If you could see with eyes of faith, you would see that the angelic armies
of the Almighty are not poised today to act in response to the deeds of
our predominately godless lawmakers, nor of faithless and tradition-bound
church leaders. No, I believe rather that the hosts of God hover near this
room, armed with power from on high to change the course of history in response
to the humble prayers and simple obedience of fathers like you. The future
of America lies squarely on the shoulders of you men and others like you
all around this land. What higher calling, what nobler mission than this?!
Your task is nothing less than the restoration of our civilization, our
nation, our churchesand it all rests on your actions in restoring
your own homes.
Does the task seem too great? Think how Zerubbabel must have felt. A
remnant of the people of God had returned to their land after 70 years of
exile. They were trying to rebuild the temple that had been destroyed by
the Babylonians. The work was hard, the hands few, the opposition great.
What was the Lords message to the man in charge? "Not by
might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord Almighty"
(Zech. 4:6). Gods work never depends on mere human power, fortitude,
or numbers. It depends on the presence and power of his own Spirit. His
Spirit working through a few obedient men will accomplish more than all
the vaunted expressions of merely human power.
It may be that the decline of America has gone too far, that God will
not now allow a restoration to our former greatness. That is up to him.
Our mission is the same in any case: to restore our homes so that they become
Bethels, houses of God. However depraved and mournful and anxious the peoples
around us may yet become, our homes can be sanctuaries of righteousness
and joy and peace. But the fact that you are here, the fact that the Lord
has preserved a sizable remnant of men who are ready to take responsibility
and reclaim spiritual leadership suggests to me that it may not be too late
for America. Lets do our part and see what God will do.
The solution: returning to patriarchy
The need of the hour is expressed in the title of this conference: Back
to Patriarchy. Weldon Hardenbrook in Missing From Action: Vanishing Manhood
in America explains the root meaning of the word:
The biblical term patriarchy is derived from two words in the Greek
language--patria (taken from the word pater, "father"), which
means "family"; and arche, which means "beginning,"
"first in origin," and "to rule." A patriarch is a
family ruler. He is the man in charge.
What is needed today is nothing less that a return to patriarchy, a society
led by strong, godly men. We need family leaders who will also become leaders
in the churches and throughout every institution in the nation.
During the Colonial period America was a frankly patriarchal society.
Men were the unquestioned leaders of their homes. Edmund S. Morgan in Virginians
at Home writes:
In 1708 Ann Walker, an Anglican married to a Quaker, objected in court
to having her children educated as Quakers, but the Court, while acknowledging
her own freedom to worship as she chose, instructed her not to interfere
in any way with the instruction of her children, even forbidding her to
expound any part of the scriptures to the children without her husband's
consent. Such complete support for the husband's authority is all the more
remarkable in view of the fact that the Anglican Church was the established
church of Virginia, to which all the members of the court doubtless belonged.
This total control of the home spilled over into male leadership in the
church, the community, and in business and civil institutions. As Mary Ryan
writes in Womanhood in America, "Only the patriarch of the family .
. . could rise to leadership in political, cultural, and religious affairs."
Recent generations of men have retreated from their calling to be patriarchs,
to provide the spiritual direction for home and society. In more recent
times the male leadership role has been relegated merely to the spheres
of politics and business. Men abandoned the truly formative institutions
of civilization. They left the home, the education of children, and most
of the work of the church to women, and they have neglected to infuse the
political and commercial arenas with a biblically-defined moral direction.
Reinforcing the effects of their own abdication of responsibility, men
have also had to contend with emasculation at the hands of destructive cultural
forces.
Feminism hates men, and it especially hates men who act like men, men
who take charge. Government undermines the male role of provider by taking
on the care of children, the elderly, and the needy. Boys are feminized
as they are shaped mostly by females in the home, the schools, and the churches.
The masculine inclinations to lead, to protect, and to provide are thwarted
by efforts to create the new "sensitive" (and sad to say, "feminized")
man.
It is time for men to look back to the past so that they can look to
the future with hope. They need to repent of generations of failed leadership
and reject the feminizing pressures of today. They need to again accept
the burden of godly leadership.
Patriarchs are men who walk with God, who fear the Lord and accept responsibility
for leadership. God's chosen nation Israel was founded by the patriarchs.
America was set on its blessed course by patriarchs. By God's grace we,
too, can become patriarchs so that succeeding generations may live under
a blessing instead of a curse.
If we are to return to the blessedness of patriarchy, how do we go about
it? Where do we begin? We must not create some man-made system that exalts
men, as if they have an inherent right to rule. We certainly must not mimic
the silly antics recommended by Robert Bly in his book Iron John. He calls
for men to rediscover the "mythopoetic" roots of masculinity through
reenacting primitive male group rituals as they gather around campfires,
beat drums, wear animal skins, and carry spears. We must also go beyond
the Christian mens movement which has men promise to stay married
and stay home at night. To be fully Christian men, to be true patriarchs,
we must begin with the original Patriarch, God the Father.
We return to patriarchy (1) by returning to God and submitting to our
Lord Jesus. We return to patriarchy (2) by learning our roles from God the
Father. We return to patriarchy (3) by accepting responsibility for our
God-given duties. We return to patriarchy (4) by developing a multi-generational
vision. Lets explore these ideas in more depth.
(The content of the rest of the speech appears in the form of articles
elsewhere on this Web site. See: "The Submissive Man," "What
Every Family Needs From a Father," It's Your Homeschool," and
"A Multi-generational Vision.") |